Friends
How many type of friends are there??
Everyone got their own definition of friends~
Here's what Yahoo says:
- Situational friends.
You see each other regularly, have fun together, even share occasional disappointments. When you move or something changes, you don't stay in touch. Ex. : activity and location based - work, gym, clubs, etc.
- Casual friends.
Meet each other once in a while, go out for lunch and dinner, catch up on the news/gossip. You like each other, appreciate the company. But are are not best friends.
- Close friends.
They understand the real you, help when you're in trouble and are people you can rely on. They will not betray you, they let you in their lives and care about you deeply. Such people don't come along often and such relationships are to be cherished.
So how many friends do you have, and which friends actually falls under this catogory??
Some people see friends as 'friEND' too
Friend comes and goes, but someone dun really want their friend to go at all~~
It actually apply same to me and i bet it apply the same to a lot people too~
So I've heard this quote, ‘没有一辈子的朋友,不过可以一辈子有朋友’
It actually means that 'Even thought you dun have everlasting friends, but you can at least have friends forever~'
A special friend of mine once told me that whenever before she sleep, she will say "I love you" to her parents every single night!
How many of you actually say this to your parents everyday??
I believe not much~
However the reason she told is that, she doesn't want to live life with regrets, as she said that if anything were to happened to her parents the next day and the last thing she tell them is some nasty stuffs or even quarrel, she will just regret for the rest of her life~~
So what if it applies to your friend???
What will you do??
When this came across my mind, I've start to miss my friends, those that we once spent time together and actually done something together. I actually have friends that I've nver speak for near to 6 years.
So certain of my friends that i hang out with, I treat them very well which eventually send the wrong message or even made them feel uncomfortable. And eventually scared them off or even kana 'friendzoned' and become someone that's feel annoyed.
I feel rather lost and though i still try very hard to salvage the relationship but it's not easy~
I've ask my other friends what are the solution and mostly the solution is,"Don't care la!"
My dear friends, be it 'long lost friend', 'friendzone friend', 'annoyed-you friend', I hope that you can give me the chance to be friends~
And be patient with me.
And to my friends - Please treasure your friends:)
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